Nothing about divorce is simple. Even the most amicable divorces are trying, confusing, and draining in more ways than one. No matter the reason for the separation, it’s essential to know you don’t have to go through it alone. Depending on a variety of factors, you may be entitled to alimony. Every state has different guidelines for alimony, so it’s important to consult with a family law attorney who can help make sure you get what you’re entitled to.

 

What is permanent alimony, and how does it work?

 

Permanent alimony is money paid from one person to another until one of the parties involved passes away. This type of alimony is usually awarded when the couple had been married for an extended time before deciding to divorce. In most of these cases, one of the parties was a stay-at-home parent while the other was the sole breadwinner, leaving the first person utterly dependent on the other for financial well-being. If there were no children in the marriage, but one spouse was ill or unable to work, the case can also be made for permanent alimony. Anything that prevented one spouse from working for the marriage duration can be a reason for permanent alimony to be awarded.

 

Which spouse is most likely to receive permanent alimony?

 

Typically, if one person was a stay-at-home parent, unable to work due to caring for a child, they are more likely to receive this financial support. If the divorce happens while a child is still young and needs the stay-at-home parent to remain at home, or if the child has a long-term illness, the chances are good a judge will award indefinite alimony. One spouse may receive this benefit if they are disabled and cannot return to work after a long marriage where the other spouse fully supported them.

 

Is it possible to have temporary or limited alimony changed to permanent alimony?

 

While it is possible to appeal to the courts to have your initial alimony award changed, it’s crucial to consult with an attorney specializing in family law. The lawyer will help you file the proper forms and help prepare your statement before your court date. A judge will need due cause to revise another judge’s initial ruling for spousal support, so be prepared to show viable reasoning and proof as to why you need permanent support. 

 

Divorce is hard. Using a family law attorney to help during this challenging time can help provide you with the support and resources you need to make sure your initial divorce request includes the right alimony for your situation. If you are already divorced but feel your alimony should be reconsidered, you still have time. Divorce is overwhelming. Don’t let the emotional impact of this life-changing decision stand between you and the financial support you deserve.